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February 28 Get your affairs in order...My children have been playing TOGETHER for several hours now: no fighting, crying or arguing. Just laughter. …I can only assume that the end is near, the well of souls is empty and Demi Moore is in labor (kudos to those who get that), that the meteor is nearing the planet and/or a republican will win the white house. February 27 Aw man…I am ska-roooed when she is really teenager!Maura has turned out to be a pre-teen and skipping the pre-tween and tween years all together. The other day she and Brody decided to play their instruments together; when discussing what to sing about Maura suggested a song about a girl whose boyfriend dumped her and how she was mad. ? And then I give you exhibit A below (click to enlarge). The image you see is of Maura and Gavin. This is on their wedding day (which, btw, will be sometime next year). The item hanging from the ceiling is the mirror ball from the reception.
February 17 MIA in the DIABrody is working on a speech for school. His chosen topic is Egypt; specifically Pharaohs, King Tut and Mummies. He really enjoyed reading and researching for the report. Wanting to encourage this interest in learning, we went to the DIA to see their Egyptian relics and to the Science Center to see the Mummies Imax movie. We didn’t get to tour the whole museum (time and children) though it was very neat to stand in the French chapel where I proposed, with our two children. Damn time flies. Mo was a little freaked out by the mummy, so she and I walked around a bit and chit-chatted in the café while Dayna and Brod spent time in the Egyptian exhibit. Brody even doodled a pic of one of the items and made some notes. Brody and I then walked over to the Science Center to watch the Imax movie. Mo, who really wasn’t enjoying looking at art, LOVED making art. While we were at the movie, she and Dayna went to three different art galleries in the museum where kids could create their own art. In one, they did African art on fabric, in another she sketched native American art and in the third it was ‘free form’ where she choose to draw a bunny. I was pleased that the kids got to explore their interests and that no seven figure damage was incurred at the museum! Any suggestions on where to get some good acrylics?Lost a fingernail a few weeks ago. Can I tell you how incredibly difficult it is to pick up paperclips without one! I don't know if they'd win, but I bet their cheerleaders are hotter than Team Catholic!Friday night Brody had a couple buddies visit. One stayed for dinner as his family was helping out at the local fish dinner. (There are two subtle clues to where this story is going in there!) Brod’s friend is a really nice kid and a real pleasure to have over. Very polite, always nice to Mo’ and never a problem. As we sat down to dinner, he did a quick prayer the the cross thing on this chest. Brod didn’t really say anything. He also didn’t question when his friend said that he didn’t want to eat the meatballs as it was Friday. Yesterday, as Brody and I were returning from guitar lessons he finally asked. Why didn’t his buddy eat meat (and why wasn’t fish considered a meat as it was also an animal) on the Friday’s before easter, but as far as he knew, Grandpa and Grandma did/could? I can’t speak to the fish thing, however, it was an interesting opportunity to try and explain Denominations to a seven year old who has no real frame of reference. I have to admit, I sometimes surprise myself in explaining complex things to the kids; thankfully, they are curious and will not accept ‘it’s too hard to explain’ as an answer. I went with football. Brody knows that there are many football teams and I reminded him that they all play football. So I suggested that Nick and his family were on Team Catholic. And as part of that team you do that thing on your body (I pointed out it was in the shape of a cross) and that leading up to easter they have lent. Lent is where you acknowledge the suffering of jesus and gain empathy for the less fortunate by giving something up, like meat on Fridays – something the poor in the past couldn’t afford. (I choose not to take the cheap shot and point out most celebrating lent give up something so banal as to make the whole exercise meaningless – I’ll save that for when he’s older) I then compared that to my families Baptist roots who do not celebrate lent, but do full immersion baptisms versus a catholic infant baptism. So they all play in the Jesus or Christian ‘league’, each ‘team’ just plays the game a little differently. He actually seemed to understand. I suggested that other world religions most likely have similar teams within their leagues. He finished up by asking what were some of the other teams? I mentioned Methodists, Lutherans, Seventh Day Adventists, Episcopals,…. He stopped me there and said ‘They sound like they would win. Episcopals sound like a tough name; I bet they win.’ I don’t know who will ‘win’ but I’m sure Great Grandma Britton, who was Episcopalian, would be pleased that he thinks so. February 14 Things that make you go hmmm?For x-mas, Santa got Brod a cd of live Elvis performances. I wasn’t certain how much he’d like it, but thankfully he enjoys it a lot. Apparently, his favorite song on the cd is ‘In the Ghetto’? I’m not sure why, nor is he when asked…but tonight he was in the bath, opened his door, turned the cd up (so he could hear the cd in the bath…the rooms are connected) and had ‘In the Ghetto’ on repeat? Dance even though people are watching.Every year the local community hosts a Father/Daughter and Mother/Son dance around Valentine’s Day. Every year we talk about going and never quite get to it. Well this year was no different; on either count. Another event was offered and we didn’t quite get to making it… But ol’ man winter came in strong last week, cancelling the events. They were rescheduled as a simultaneous event and held last night. However, it is an ill wind that doesn’t blow somebody some good and Dayna signed us up. When Brody heard we were going, he immediately asked if we could get him a coat and tie. I thought that was great…for all his fidgetiness, he knows from appropriate! (Alas it appears that they only sell these at Easter time, though Dayna got him a very nice outfit nonetheless, as she did for Mo.) So in true ‘Fancy Nancy’ fashion, (a children’s book for you non-toddler parents) we set off in full regalia last night for the dance. Mo informed me that since we were going to the dance, I had to help her out of the carriage. The event was at the new high school and it was great. There was a company there to take pictures (we sat for several poses); someone selling corsages and boutonnieres ; a coat check and of course a fine buffet of cookies and cookies. There was also a DJ playing lots of great music…and of course parents dancing with their kids. It was interesting to note the disparity in attendance. I’d ballpark it at 80-90 percent Dads with daughters and only 10+ for Moms with sons. Additionally, the Dad had daughters up to their mid to late teens, while I didn’t see a single boy past twelve. It was also surprising to see some female pre-wedding behavior on exhibit (or in development) prior to the young ladies hitting the bridesmaid circuit: They started off with a couple slow songs, the first fast one comes on and all their shoes are off! They knew all the steps to any structured dance (Macarena, Western, Shuffle, or whatever) and usually danced in groups, leaving their Dads by the beverages. There was always a group hanging out by the DJ, bombarding him with requests and the urinated in packs (seriously why does it take two women to pee?). They were also very cute, many wearing fancy party dresses and having their hair all done up. We had a great time and it was very special to be there for our children’s first chicken dance. Sadly, it was painful watching a room full of middle-aged white folk attempting to dance without the aid of alcohol. When we arrived home I offered to help Mo out of the car; she indicated that since we were home it was now a pumpkin and she could do it herself. February 06 Outbreak 2So I'm walking around work today and I start to notice something: Birthmarks.
Now that's not really a big deal, lots of people have birthmarks or vitiligo or even burns; it's not an unusual sight. It just seemed that I was noticing more than ever. After a few more minutes in the hall, I started to notice that they were all facial. I began to wonder if a senior citizen tour bus had stopped short, causing all passengers to fall forward and smack their foreheads. I started to observe that some birthmarks were kind of raised, or bumpy; obviously some mass outbreak was on the horizon and made a point to sing my ABCs TWICE when I next washed my hands. I don't know what is going on, but keep an eye on your kids. On a different note, Happy Ash Wednesday. February 03 Paige Davis was not neededBig ‘Thank You!’ to Dad for coming up, spending the day with us and hanging the pics for Brod! Mo also enjoyed playing ‘Go Fish’ a great deal. Yes, as previously reported, Dad finally came through with de-nurseryification of Brody’s room. We spent most of yesterday getting all his stuff back in (less what was donated to the Salvation Army or books that were ceremoniously passed from Brother to Sister). Dayna and I went out last night to pick up some final items and I cannot tell you how difficult it is to find things (you see all the time) when you are looking for them. I would also suggest closely measuring and considering all art / poster purchases…I am so P****d off that ½ of what I bought is a weird size. All over town, couldn’t find a 12x16 or a 22x35. Lesson learned! (Thank goodness for those floating frames! Special caveat: floating frames are best for a single photo without mats…however if you’re trying to sqeeze a double matted commerative somethingorother in one, let me know, I can fill you in on the carpet tack tactic, though if used, it is not considered ‘museum quality’ framing and may diminish the value of your item). So Brody now has his Harry Potter / Star Wars / Rock and Roll bedroom. Sadly we failed to pick up the generous gift from Papa Bill of a framed Elvis record album; as such we weren’t able to hang the framed Ozzy album that will complement it (Grandpa may have done that on purpose). LOL
Click pictures to enlarge: Please note as Brody attempts to compliment each grouping with props, facial expressions or both. My favorite is his demonstration of what his new lampshade will look like on a new lamp (the flame shade compliments the framed Ghost Rider picture next to his drawing of Ghost Rider from a couple years ago).
February 02 Re-paintingThe painter was coming to do Brody’s room on Friday; so Thursday night we had to completely empty his room (our den is quite frightening right now…looking like a TJ Maxx after an after-xmas sale!). We were doing fine, more disgusted (and thankful too) at how much stuff he has or when we would step on a Lego™. But when all was out, save for the bed, it was time to take stuff off the walls. Thanks when we both, independently of each other, started to get a little sad, nostalgic, weepy…whatever. When we decorated his nursery, we spent as much time picking out the art as we did on anything else…maybe more. There were two sconces that held two figurines of a mother and baby and another of a family of three. Those have been there for nearly eight years, commemorating our transition from couple to family. There was the little ceramic sheep painting that Dayna did at one of those paint your own pottery places; the hand drawn wizard-mickey we got at Disney World the year we decided we wanted to ‘start’ a family. It was tough taking those down. Brody sensed this and gave us both hugs. He also though, as we went to take this two pics down, as if we could still put a couple back. There was the picture of a little boy in striped pjs looking up at a full moon. Dayna always told him that he was the boy in the picture and he was quite fond of the moon as an infant and toddler. The other was a frame and mat I had done; it contained his 1 or 2 month old picture with a FCD envelope celebrating his chineese new year symbol (dragon). It’s a cute juxtaposition; the fierce dragon and a naked baby under a blanket! Well the room looks great and we’re moving in today. |
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